{"id":1300,"date":"2008-11-21T14:34:44","date_gmt":"2008-11-21T11:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/?p=1300"},"modified":"2008-11-21T14:40:21","modified_gmt":"2008-11-21T11:40:21","slug":"lisan-i-hal-ile-nasihat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/nur\/lisan-i-hal-ile-nasihat.html","title":{"rendered":"Lisan-\u0131 h\u00e2l ile nasihat"},"content":{"rendered":"<table border=\"0\" width=\"555\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u015euna da dikkat etmek \u00eecab ediyor ki,<span style=\"color: #800000;\"> \u201cYapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ni\u00e7in \u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz?\u201d<\/span> demek, \u201cS\u00f6yledi\u011finiz \u015feyleri yap\u0131n\u0131z!\u201d demektir. Yoksa \u201cYapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ib\u00e2deti ba\u015fkas\u0131na\u00a0 s\u00f6ylemeyiniz, bunu s\u00f6ylemek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d anlam\u0131na gelmez. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ib\u00e2deti ya\u015famak farz oldu\u011fu gibi, onu ba\u015fkalar\u0131na s\u00f6ylemek de farzd\u0131r. Ancak nas\u00eehatin daha \u00e7ok m\u00fcess\u00eer olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015famak l\u00e2z\u0131md\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td><a class=\"thickbox\" href=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/resim\/nasihat.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"ngg-singlepic ngg-center\" src=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/resim\/nasihat.jpg\" alt=\"nasihat.jpg\" width=\"125\" height=\"126\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><!--more--><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">&#8220;Yapmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyleri ni\u00e7in s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz?&#8221; (Saff S\u00fbresi, 2) <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">me\u00e2lindeki \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eeme ile <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">&#8220;\u0130nsanlara s\u00f6z\u00fcnle de\u011fil,\u00a0 fiilinle vaaz et.&#8221; (Ahmed bin Hanbel, z\u00fchd) <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eefi, nas\u00eehatin insanlara\u00a0 en iyi ve m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fekilde te&#8217;s\u00eer\u00a0 edebilmesi i\u00e7in, nas\u00eehat edenin s\u00f6ylediklerini ya\u015famas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6steriyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc nefsini \u0131slah etmeyen ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 \u0131slah edemez.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n Ba\u015fka bir had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eefte de <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">&#8220;Sizden herhangi biriniz bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcrse, onu hemen eliyle de\u011fi\u015ftirsin. E\u011fer\u00a0 buna g\u00fcc\u00fc yetmiyorsa, diliyle de\u011fi\u015ftirsin. Ona da g\u00fcc\u00fc yetmiyorsa, kalbiyle de\u011fi\u015ftirsin (bu\u011fz etsin). \u0130man\u0131n en zay\u0131f\u0131 da budur.&#8221; (Sahih-i M\u00fcslim, Kitabu&#8217;l &#8211; \u0130man) <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">buyrulmas\u0131ndan anla\u015f\u0131lan\u00a0 hak\u00eekat \u015fudur ki: <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">Bir fen\u00e2l\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak; fiilen, elle m\u00fcd\u00e2hale etmek; kavlen, s\u00f6zle m\u00fcd\u00e2hale etmek, kalben de ondan nefret etmek ile olabilir. Bu \u00fc\u00e7 mu\u00e2melenin birden tahakkukunun daha \u00e7ok m\u00fcess\u00eer oldu\u011fu, bunlar\u0131n eksilmesi<br \/>\n nisbetinde te&#8217;s\u00eerin de azalaca\u011f\u0131\u00a0 muhakkakt\u0131r. Ge\u00e7en \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eeme ve bu had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eefler bir ib\u00e2detin, emr-i bi&#8217;l-m\u00e2ruf ve nehy-i ani&#8217;l-m\u00fcnkerin \u00f6zellikle ya\u015fayarak\u00a0 yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, if\u00e2de ediyorlar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n Bu te&#8217;s\u00eerin hikmetini \u015f\u00f6ylece if\u00e2de edebiliriz:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n Nas\u0131l ki \u00fc\u00e7 elif ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 olsa \u00fc\u00e7 k\u0131ymeti vard\u0131r. Rakam olarak yan yana konulsa y\u00fcz on bir (111) k\u0131ymetini if\u00e2de eder. E\u011fer o rakamlardan birisi al\u0131n\u0131rsa, say\u0131 y\u00fcz on birden (111), on bire (11) d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi, bir nas\u00eehat da inanarak,\u00a0 s\u00f6yleyerek ve ya\u015fayarak yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fcz on bir (111) k\u0131ymet ve kuvvet-i m\u00e2nev\u00eeyeye sahip oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in daha f\u00e2ideli ve m\u00fcess\u00eer olur. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">S\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz \u015feyleri ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z takdirde, te&#8217;s\u00eeri o nisbette azal\u0131r.E\u011fer inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yleyip ya\u015fam\u0131yorsak, s\u00f6z\u00fcn tesiri \u00e2n\u0131nda bir (1) elif\u00a0 seviyesine iner. Zaten had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eef, sadece kalpte muh\u00e2faza edilen bir \u00eem\u00e2n\u0131n<br \/>\n da b\u00f6ylece zay\u0131f oldu\u011funu ifade ediyor. \u015euna da dikkat etmek \u00eecab ediyor ki, <strong>&#8220;Yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ni\u00e7in s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz?&#8221; <\/strong>demek, <strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">&#8220;S\u00f6yledi\u011finiz \u015feyleri yap\u0131n\u0131z!&#8221;<\/span><\/strong> demektir. Yoksa &#8220;Yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ib\u00e2deti ba\u015fkas\u0131na s\u00f6ylemeyiniz, bunu s\u00f6ylemek\u00a0 yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.&#8221; anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ib\u00e2deti ya\u015famak farz oldu\u011fu gibi, onu ba\u015fkalar\u0131na s\u00f6ylemek de farzd\u0131r. Ancak nas\u00eehatin daha \u00e7ok m\u00fcess\u00eer olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015famak l\u00e2z\u0131md\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">Ekser\u00eeyetle fiilen yap\u0131lan bir ib\u00e2det,\u00a0 lis\u00e2nen s\u00f6ylemeyi ve kalben bu\u011fz etmeyi de if\u00e2de etti\u011finden, daha ziy\u00e2de m\u00fcess\u00eer oldu\u011fu gibi hem lis\u00e2n-\u0131 h\u00e2l ile yap\u0131lan, basara yani g\u00f6rmeye hit\u00e2b etti\u011fi i\u00e7in, g\u00f6renlerin daha \u00e7ok anlamalar\u0131na ves\u00eele olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hi\u00e7bir zaman g\u00f6ren ile i\u015fiten bir olmaz. Ama s\u00f6ylenilen ve \u00eetikad edilenler ise insanlar\u0131n bas\u00eeretine, anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na ve ruhlar\u0131na hit\u00e2b etmek oldu\u011fundan, herkesin bas\u00eereti her vakit tam a\u00e7\u0131k olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ve r\u00fbhen istenilen seviyede her vakit m\u00fcteyakk\u0131z olup hassasiyet g\u00f6sterilemedi\u011finden, istif\u00e2de de o nisbette azal\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ruh\u00ee hassasiyet ve bas\u00eeretin a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 ekser\u00eeyetle ilm\u00ee terakk\u00ee ve manev\u00ee huz\u00fbr ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir. Bilhassa her cihetle ruhu me\u015fgul eden ve huz\u00fbr-\u0131 d\u00e2im\u00eeyi kazanmaya m\u00e2ni olan ve hak\u00e2ik-i \u00eem\u00e2niye ve istikameti<br \/>\n g\u00f6steren ilimlere v\u00e2s\u0131l olup ula\u015fmaya engel olan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc fitne ve fesadlar\u0131n ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6yle bir zamandabulunan insanlar\u0131n, ya\u015fayarak yap\u0131lanbir nas\u00eehate ne kadar muhta\u00e7 olduklar\u0131n\u0131 az bir tefekk\u00fcr ile anlamam\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n Hatta bug\u00fcn um\u00fbm \u00e2lemde ve bilhassa \u0130sl\u00e2m d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda, Siyonizm ve z\u0131nd\u0131ka komitesinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 tahrib\u00e2t\u0131n,hemen hemen y\u00fczde sekseni g\u00f6rsel bas\u0131n denilen faaliyetle yap\u0131lan ifs\u00e2dat\u0131n tahrib\u00e2t\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u015f\u00fcphesizdir. Televizyonlar v\u00e2s\u0131tas\u0131yla ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131 bozan filmler ve bilhassa her t\u00fcrl\u00fc sayg\u0131 ve h\u00fcrmete l\u00e2y\u0131k olan kad\u0131nlar\u0131, ifs\u00e2d edip a\u00e7mak ve tahrib\u00e2ta \u00e2let etmek gibi ves\u00eelelerle be\u015feriyeti belki de k\u00e2inat\u0131 fel\u00e2ketlere s\u00fcr\u00fcklemeye sebep oluyorlar. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">Bu hususta bizleri ve belki b\u00fct\u00fcn M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131 en \u00e7ok \u00fczen de bu kadar tahrib\u00e2ta ves\u00eele olan tesett\u00fcrs\u00fczl\u00fc\u011fe ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131na fetv\u00e2 veren ulem\u00e2-i s\u00fb&#8217; t\u00e2birine l\u00e2y\u0131k olan bir k\u0131s\u0131m \u00e2limlerdir ki bu tahrib\u00e2t\u0131n getirdi\u011fi mes&#8217;uliyeti nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemiyorlar diye hayret ediyoruz. H\u00e2lbuki \u0130sl\u00e2m ulemas\u0131 n\u00e2mahreme bakmay\u0131 fuh\u015f\u00eey\u00e2t\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131 olarak kab\u00fbl ediyor.Ve bu hususta i\u00e7inde f\u00e2s\u0131klar\u0131n bulundu\u011fu bir toplumda kad\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc ve ellerini a\u00e7mas\u0131na bile cevaz vermiyor. \u015eu anda bu fetv\u00e2y\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken bile s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131p titredi\u011fimiz halde onlar, s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131p titremeden hangi ces\u00e2retle bu fetv\u00e2y\u0131 veriyorlar, diye akl\u0131m\u0131za geliyor. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ulem\u00e2-i s\u00fb hakk\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir tehd\u00eed vard\u0131r. Hatta bu hususta \u0130m\u00e2m-\u0131 Ali de,<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong><br \/>\n <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"> &#8220;\u00c2hir zaman\u0131n en fen\u00e2 insanlar\u0131 bir k\u0131s\u0131m ulem\u00e2-i s\u00fb&#8217;dur ki, h\u0131rs sebebiyle kar\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 haramla doldurmak i\u00e7in bid&#8217;alara fetv\u00e2 verip, inti\u015f\u00e2r\u0131na yard\u0131m edenlerdir.&#8221; <\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">diye ulem\u00e2-i s\u00fb&#8217;u yani bid&#8217;alara fetv\u00e2 veren hocalar\u0131, \u00e2hir zaman\u0131n en fen\u00e2 insanlar\u0131 diyerek tehd\u00eed eder. \u00dcstad Bedi\u00fczzaman Hazretleri de bid&#8217;alara taraftar olmay\u0131 mubik\u00e2t-\u0131 seb&#8217;a denilen, insan\u0131n hel\u00e2kine sebep olan en b\u00fcy\u00fck yedi g\u00fcnahtan birisi olarak sayar ve kabul eder.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">Demek nas\u0131l ki, ya\u015fayarak yap\u0131lan nasihatin b\u00fcy\u00fck bir tesiri vard\u0131r. \u00d6yle de ya\u015fayarak yap\u0131lan g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n da tahribat\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak\u00eem-i Rah\u00eem, bizleri ve b\u00fct\u00fcn ehl-i \u00eem\u00e2n\u0131 bid&#8217;alara taraftar olan ulem\u00e2-i s\u00fb z\u00fcmresine d\u00e2hil olmaktan muh\u00e2faza eyleyip \u0130slamiyeti hakk\u0131yla ya\u015fayan ve insanlara g\u00fczel \u00f6rnek olan kullar\u0131ndan eylesin. \u00c2m\u00een.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Muhammed Z\u00e2kir \u00c7ET\u0130N<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">mz.cetin@irfanmektebi.com<\/span><br \/>\n <span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">Kaynak : <a href=\"http:\/\/www.irfanmektebi.com\">\u0130rfan Mektebi<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u015euna da dikkat etmek \u00eecab ediyor ki, \u201cYapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ni\u00e7in \u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz?\u201d demek, \u201cS\u00f6yledi\u011finiz \u015feyleri yap\u0131n\u0131z!\u201d demektir. Yoksa \u201cYapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ib\u00e2deti ba\u015fkas\u0131na\u00a0 s\u00f6ylemeyiniz, bunu s\u00f6ylemek yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ib\u00e2deti ya\u015famak farz oldu\u011fu gibi, onu ba\u015fkalar\u0131na s\u00f6ylemek de farzd\u0131r. Ancak nas\u00eehatin daha \u00e7ok m\u00fcess\u00eer olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015famak l\u00e2z\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":100000,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[859,1155,860],"class_list":["post-1300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nur","tag-irfan-mektebi","tag-nasihat","tag-tahribat"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/100000"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1300"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1300\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}