{"id":1672,"date":"2009-08-15T13:38:18","date_gmt":"2009-08-15T10:38:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/?p=1672"},"modified":"2009-08-15T13:38:18","modified_gmt":"2009-08-15T10:38:18","slug":"ask-i-mecaziden-ask-i-hakikiye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/sohbetlerimiz\/ask-i-mecaziden-ask-i-hakikiye.html","title":{"rendered":"a\u015fk-\u0131 mec\u00e2z\u00ee&#8217;den a\u015fk-\u0131 hakik\u00ee&#8217;ye"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\n<table style=\"width: 552px; height: 133px;\" border=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">Risale-i Nur\u2019da hz. \u00dcstad \u015fefkatin a\u015fktan \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler. Zira \u015fefkat hi\u00e7bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemedeken sevmektir. Halbuki a\u015fk, muhataptan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k gelmezse olmaz, mutlaka kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ister.<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1671\" title=\"ask_i_ilahi\" src=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/k-125x125.jpg\" alt=\"ask_i_ilahi\" width=\"125\" height=\"125\" \/><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\"><!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">Bismill\u00e2hirrahm\u00e2nirrah\u00eem<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">Arkada\u015flar bug\u00fcnk\u00fc konumuz Risale-i Nur\u2019da a\u015fk ve \u015fevkat konusunun muvazenesi olacakt\u0131r g\u00fcc\u00fcmz\u00fcn yetti\u011fi kadar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">Risale-i Nur\u2019da hz. \u00dcstad \u015fefkatin a\u015fktan \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler. Zira \u015fefkat hi\u00e7bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemedeken sevmektir. Halbuki a\u015fk, muhataptan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k gelmezse olmaz, mutlaka kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ister.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u201cAnnenin yavrusuna olan sevgisi\u201ddir \u015fefkat&#8217;tir. A\u015fk konusunu ise yeterince anlayabilmek i\u00e7in ise a\u015fk\u0131 iki s\u0131n\u0131fa ay\u0131rmak laz\u0131md\u0131r; biri \u201c<strong>a\u015fk-\u0131 hakik\u00ee<\/strong>\u201d, di\u011feri \u201c<strong>a\u015fk-\u0131 mec\u00e2z\u00ee<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"PADDING-LEFT: 30px; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: small\">\u201ca\u015fk-\u0131 hakik\u00ee\u201d ehli hakk\u0131n, Hakka olan a\u015fklar\u0131d\u0131r, yada hak nam\u0131na ba\u015fkalara olan a\u015fkd\u0131r ki, bunda zarar yoktur. Zira Allah nam\u0131na sevdi\u011fin ki\u015fi e\u011fer Allah\u2019\u0131n dostu ise zaten faydas\u0131 var.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"PADDING-LEFT: 30px; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: small\">\u201cA\u015fk\u201da, kelime anlam\u0131 olarak sevginin \u015fiddetli mertebesi olarak bakarsak; ki\u015finin, mala m\u00fclke, e\u015fe, i\u015fe, \u00e7oluk cocu\u011fa olan \u015fiddetli muhabbeti de bir nevi a\u015fk say\u0131l\u0131r. E\u011fer bunlar Allah nam\u0131na ise zarar\u0131 yoktur ama de\u011filse zarar\u0131 ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7oktur. i\u015fte bu ikinci s\u0131n\u0131f Allah nam\u0131na olmayan \u015fiddetli muhabbete \u201ca\u015fk-\u0131 mec\u00e2z\u00ee\u201d diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">Bunu en bariz \u015fekilde k\u0131zlar\u0131n erkeklere a\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131nda ya da erkeklerin k\u0131zlara a\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131nda g\u00f6rmekte ve hissetmekteyiz. Bu tarz gayr-i me\u015fru a\u015fklara \u201ca\u015fk-\u0131 mec\u00e2z\u00ee\u201d denilmektedir. A\u015fk-\u0131 mec\u00e2z\u00ee muz\u0131r bir kabir gibidir, sahibine azaptan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey vermez. Mesel\u00e2, mukabele g\u00f6rmeme elemi verir; yukar\u0131da demi\u015ftik a\u015fk kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ister. Evet bu a\u015fka du\u00e7ar olan, a\u015fk\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ister, hatta o hale gelir ki o kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k olmadan ya\u015famayamaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r. Bu kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman d\u00fcnya ona zindan olur, hayat ona manas\u0131z olur, adeta ya\u015famaktan k\u00fcser. Sanki her taraf ona karanl\u0131k ve d\u00fc\u015fman olmu\u015ftur. Sanki her taraf ona muz\u0131r bir kabirdir, azab \u00e7ektiriyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">Ayn\u0131 a\u015fk, sahibine firak elemi de \u00e7ektirir, hem de \u00e7e\u015fit \u00e7e\u015fit firaklar. E\u011fer a\u015fk\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulsa, lillah i\u00e7in olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bu a\u015fk\u0131n bitece\u011fi korkusu vard\u0131r, yada a\u015f\u0131k\u0131n\u0131n kendinden so\u011fumas\u0131 kopmas\u0131 gitmesi korkusu vard\u0131r, yada a\u015f\u0131k\u0131n\u0131n bir kazaya u\u011fray\u0131p \u00f6lmesi ihtimali vard\u0131r &#8230; T\u00fcm bu ihtimaller, o a\u015fk sahibini yakar. Adete t\u00fcm muhtelif firaklar bir muz\u0131r kabir olmu\u015flar, sahibine azab ediyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"PADDING-LEFT: 30px; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: small\"><strong><\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"PADDING-LEFT: 30px; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: small\"><strong>&#8211; \u0130nsana verilen bu hiss-i a\u015fk ne i\u00e7in verilmi\u015ftir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"PADDING-LEFT: 30px; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; FONT-SIZE: small\"><strong><\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">K\u0131saca; insan a\u015fk-\u0131 mecaziden a\u015fk-\u0131 hakikiye y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00f6ns\u00fcn, bir mertebe yukar\u0131s\u0131 \u015fefkat mertebesini yakalas\u0131n. Aksi takdirde bu a\u015fk-\u0131 mecazi, sahibini sadece azapta b\u0131rakmayacak, hadsiz mesuliyetede du\u00e7ar edecektir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u0130lahi! Ya Rabbi senin bize takm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fun bu hadsiz, sanatl\u0131, hikmetli, maslahatl\u0131 isti&#8217;datlar\u0131, latifeleri, kabiliyetleri, nefsimizin a\u015fk-\u0131 mecazisine \u015fart ettik, zulm ettik, heba ettik, belkide bir\u00e7o\u011funu katl ettik. Bizim hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 afv et ve bizi bu a\u015fk-\u0131 mecaziden kurtar ve bize a\u015fk-\u0131 hakikiyi ve bir mertebe yukar\u0131s\u0131 olan \u015fefkat mertebesini ver. Biz alamay\u0131z liyakatimiz kalmad\u0131 ama sen, ihsan\u0131 bol, keremi bol, ikram\u0131 bol olans\u0131n. Bizi nefsimizin a\u015fk-\u0131 mecasine haps etme..<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">amin<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #800000; font-size: large;\">\u0633\u064f\u0628\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0644\u0627\u064e\u0639\u0650\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627\u06e4 \u0627\u0650\u0644\u0627\u0651\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0627\u064e\u0646\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0644\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0643\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064f<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;\">el Fatiha<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a onclick=\"pageTracker._trackPageview ('\/outgoing\/http_www_risalesohbet_net');\" href=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Risale-i Nur Sohbetleri<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/sohbet.php\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Muhabbet-i Bakiye<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Risale-i Nur\u2019da hz. \u00dcstad \u015fefkatin a\u015fktan \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler. Zira \u015fefkat hi\u00e7bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemedeken sevmektir. Halbuki a\u015fk, muhataptan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k gelmezse olmaz, mutlaka kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ister.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":189,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[289,297,305,63],"tags":[1036,1035,1039,1040,1038,1037,1042,1041],"class_list":["post-1672","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-birincimektupmakale","category-dokuzuncumektupmakale","category-onyedincimektupmakale","category-sohbetlerimiz","tag-ask-i-hakiki","tag-ask-i-mecazi","tag-hakiki-ask","tag-ilahi-ask","tag-risale-i-nur","tag-risale-i-nurda-ask","tag-risale-i-nurda-sefkat","tag-sefkat"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1672","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/189"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1672"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1672\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1672"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1672"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1672"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}