{"id":2075,"date":"2011-10-15T15:33:32","date_gmt":"2011-10-15T12:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/?p=2075"},"modified":"2012-07-17T19:37:22","modified_gmt":"2012-07-17T16:37:22","slug":"muhabbet-bahsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/rnk\/sozler-rnk\/otuzikincisozmakale\/muhabbet-bahsi.html","title":{"rendered":"Muhabbet Bahsi"},"content":{"rendered":"<table style=\"width: 550px; height: 250px;\" border=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<p>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><strong>&#8221;Muhabbet \u0130htiyari de\u011fil.&#8221;<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Diyorsunuz ki: Muhabbet, ihtiyar\u00ee de\u011fil.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><br \/>Hem ihtiyac-\u0131 f\u0131tr\u00eeye binaen, leziz taamlar\u0131 ve meyveleri severim. <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Peder ve v\u00e2lide ve evl\u00e2dlar\u0131m\u0131 severim.<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Refika-i hayat\u0131m\u0131 severim.<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Dost ve ahbablar\u0131m\u0131 severim.<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Enbiya ve evliyay\u0131 severim.<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Hayat\u0131m\u0131, gen\u00e7li\u011fimi severim. <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Bahar\u0131 ve g\u00fczel \u015feyleri ve d\u00fcnyay\u0131 severim.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Nas\u0131l bunlar\u0131 sevmeyece\u011fim?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\"><br \/><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Nas\u0131l b\u00fct\u00fcn bu muhabbetleri, Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n z\u00e2t ve s\u0131f\u00e2t ve esmas\u0131na verebilirim? <\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: #000000; font-size: small;\">Bu ne demektir?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td><a href=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/n1003482650_200837_36211.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2077\" title=\"n1003482650_200837_3621\" src=\"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/n1003482650_200837_36211-150x112.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"112\" srcset=\"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/n1003482650_200837_36211-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/images\/n1003482650_200837_36211.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>\u00a0<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bismill\u00e2hirrahm\u00e2nirrah\u00eem,<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: #000000; font-size: small;\">Elhamd\u00fclill\u00e2hi rabbil \u00e2lem\u00een vel\u00e2k\u0131bet\u00fclil m\u00fcttek\u00een vessal\u00eat\u00fc vessal\u00eam\u00fc al\u00ea seyyidine Muhammedivve al\u00ea \u00ealihi vesahbihi ecmain, al\u00ea rasul\u00fcne salev\u00e2t<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: medium;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;\">32. S\u00d6Z<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">M\u00dcH\u0130M B\u0130R SUAL<\/span><\/span><\/strong><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Diyorsunuz ki: \u201cMuhabbet, ihtiyar\u00ee de\u011fil.<\/span><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Hem ihtiyac-\u0131 f\u0131tr\u00eeye binaen, leziz taamlar\u0131 ve meyveleri severim.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Evet sevmek muhabbet hissetmek bizim pek elimizde de\u011fil.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u0130steyerek sevmek veya sevmemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Hem f\u0131trat\u0131m\u0131zda da sevmek var.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z var ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131za binaen yemeyi i\u00e7meyi seviyoruz.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Hem sadece onlar\u0131 de\u011fil&#8230;<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Peder ve v\u00e2lide ve evl\u00e2dlar\u0131m\u0131 severim. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Refika-i hayat\u0131m\u0131 severim. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Dost ve ahbablar\u0131m\u0131 severim. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Enbiya ve evliyay\u0131 severim. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Hayat\u0131m\u0131, gen\u00e7li\u011fimi severim. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Bahar\u0131 ve g\u00fczel \u015feyleri ve d\u00fcnyay\u0131 severim.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ama bir yandan da biliyoruz ki bunlar d\u00fcnyevidir, fanidir.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bizim asl\u0131nda sevgimizi bu d\u00fcnyevi \u015feylere de\u011fil, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Mahbub-u Hakiki\u2019ye vermemiz laz\u0131m\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Nas\u0131l bunlar\u0131 sevmeyece\u011fim?<\/span><\/span><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Nas\u0131l b\u00fct\u00fcn bu muhabbetleri, Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n z\u00e2t ve s\u0131f\u00e2t ve esmas\u0131na verebilirim? <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Bu ne demektir?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\"><strong>Elcevab:<\/strong> \u201cD\u00f6rt N\u00fckte\u201dyi dinle.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">B\u0130R\u0130NC\u0130 N\u00dcKTE: <\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Muhabbet, \u00e7endan ihtiyar\u00ee de\u011fil. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Fakat ihtiyar ile, muhabbetin y\u00fcz\u00fc, bir mahbubdan di\u011fer bir mahbuba d\u00f6nebilir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Evet sevmek elimizde de\u011fil, a<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">ma sevgimizi y\u00f6netmek onu y\u00f6nlendirmek e<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">limizde in\u015fallah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Mesel\u00e2: Bir mahbubun \u00e7irkinli\u011fini g\u00f6stermekle <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">veyahut as\u0131l l\u00e2y\u0131k-\u0131 muhabbet olan <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">di\u011fer bir mahbuba perde veya \u00e2yine oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermekle,<\/span><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">muhabbetin y\u00fcz\u00fc, mecaz\u00ee mahbubdan hakik\u00ee mahbuba \u00e7evrilebilir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Sevdi\u011fimiz \u015feyleri asl\u0131nda neden sevdi\u011fimizi o<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">nlarda neyi sevdi\u011fimizi g\u00f6rebilir, anlayabiliriz. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ve o sevdi\u011fimiz \u015feyin as\u0131l kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulabilirsek<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">ki her sevilen g\u00fczelli\u011fin kayna\u011f\u0131 Allah\u2019t\u0131r, O\u2019nun esmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">O zaman sevgimizi Allah\u2019a \u00e7evirmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Misal bir insan olsa kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda o<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">nda bizim ho\u015fumuza giden sevdi\u011fimiz \u00f6zellikleri c<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u00f6mertli\u011fidir, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr, g<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u00fcvenilirli\u011fidir, g<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u00fczelli\u011fidir, m<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">erhametidir vs. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">O insan\u0131n cesedini de\u011fil, bu \u00f6zelliklerini severiz.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ve asl\u0131nda bizim sevdi\u011fimiz o ki\u015fiden ziyade <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Allah\u2019\u0131n isim ve s\u0131fatlar\u0131 oldu\u011fundan olay\u0131 bu \u015fekilde de\u011ferlendirip <span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>s<\/strong><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">evgimizden Allah\u2019a yol bulabilir, sevgimizi Allah\u2019a y\u00f6nlendirebiliriz.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bunu nas\u0131l anlayaca\u011f\u0131z peki?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">O ki\u015fi yan\u0131m\u0131zda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">iyebilece\u011fiz ki, evet vard\u0131 ve bu bu isimlere ayna idi, b<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">en bu tecellileri seviyordum. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u015eimdi o sevdiklerin yine duruyor. <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">O tecellileri ba\u015fka aynalarda g\u00f6rmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">G\u00f6rmesem bile as\u0131l sahibi Allah\u2019t\u0131r ve o hep benimledir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bu nazarla bak\u0131nca vefatlar da insan\u0131 \u00fczmez. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: #000000; font-size: small;\">Fani \u00f6mr\u00fcn bitmesi, mahlukattaki fanilik damgas\u0131 onlar\u0131n ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rmemiz v<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: #000000; font-size: small;\">e sevdi\u011fimiz \u015feyin asl\u0131nda o ge\u00e7ici \u015feyler olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmemiz b<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: #000000; font-size: small;\">izi Allah r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7in sevmeye ve Allah\u2019\u0131 sevmeye g\u00f6t\u00fcren bir yoldur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">\u0130K\u0130NC\u0130 N\u00dcKTE: <\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Ta\u2019dad etti\u011fin sevdiklerini, sevme demiyoruz. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Az\u00f6nce sayd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 sevme demiyoruz diyor. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Belki onlar\u0131 Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n hesab\u0131na ve onun muhabbeti nam\u0131na sev, deriz.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Mesel\u00e2: Leziz taamlar\u0131, g\u00fczel meyveleri, <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n ihsan\u0131 ve o Rahman-\u0131 Rah\u00eem\u2019in in\u2019am\u0131 cihetinde sevmek, <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">\u201cRahman\u201d ve \u201cM\u00fcn\u2019im\u201d isimlerini sevmektir, hem manev\u00ee bir \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrd\u00fcr.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Peki nas\u0131l anlayaca\u011f\u0131z bu \u015fekilde sevdi\u011fimizi ?<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">\u015eu muhabbet, yaln\u0131z nefis hesab\u0131na olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve Rahman nam\u0131na oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steren; <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">me\u015fru dairesinde kanaatk\u00e2rane kazanmak <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">ve m\u00fctefekkirane, m\u00fcte\u015fekkirane yemektir.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ve bunun yolunu da g\u00f6steriyor. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Me\u015fru dairede kazan\u0131yorsak, kanaat ediyorsak, yerken tefekk\u00fcr ediyorsak v<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">e \u015f\u00fckrediyorsak demek Rahman nam\u0131na, M\u00fcn&#8217;im nam\u0131na seviyoruz. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc bir haldeysek vay halimize\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Peki anne babaya kar\u015f\u0131 sevgimizde \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc nas\u0131l olmal\u0131?<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Hem peder ve v\u00e2lideyi \u015fefkat ile te\u00e7hiz eden <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">ve seni onlar\u0131n merhametli elleriyle terbiye ettiren hikmet\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">ve rahmet hesab\u0131na onlara h\u00fcrmet ve muhabbet, <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n muhabbetine aittir.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">O muhabbet ve h\u00fcrmet, \u015fefkat lillah i\u00e7in oldu\u011funa al\u00e2meti \u015fudur ki:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Sevgimizin Allah nam\u0131na olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayaca\u011f\u0131z ?<\/span>\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Onlar ihtiyar olduklar\u0131 ve sana hi\u00e7bir faideleri kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">ve seni zahmet ve me\u015fakkate att\u0131klar\u0131 zaman, <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">daha ziyade muhabbet ve merhamet ve \u015fefkat etmektir.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Evet bize bir faydalar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanda bile biz onlara \u015fefkat g\u00f6sterebiliyorsak d<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">emek o sevgi nefis nam\u0131na de\u011fildir. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bu hem bize \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc hem de olmam\u0131z gereken noktay\u0131 g\u00f6steren bir d\u00fcstur.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Peder; kimseyi de\u011fil, yaln\u0131z veledinin kendinden daha ziyade iyi olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Ona mukabil veled dahi, pedere kar\u015f\u0131 hak dava edemez.<\/span><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Demek v\u00e2lideyn ve veled ortas\u0131nda f\u0131traten sebeb-i m\u00fcnaka\u015fa yok.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">F\u0131traten asl\u0131nda anne babam\u0131z ve bizim aram\u0131zda tart\u0131\u015fma olu\u015fturacak bir durum yok. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Yani hani \u015fimdilerde duyuyoruz ya <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">ku\u015fak \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r can\u0131m her evde olur \u00e7ok do\u011fal y<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">a da baba anlamaz \u00e7ocuk dinlemez vs.. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bu durumlar f\u0131trat\u0131m\u0131zdan gelen ve olmak zorunda olan \u015feyler de\u011fil.<\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Arada tart\u0131\u015fma uyumsuzluk m\u00fcnaka\u015fa olmas\u0131 sonradan olan, u<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">ygun ya\u015fanmamaktan kaynaklanan sorunlar\u2026<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ve asl\u0131nda bu da o sorunlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclebilir oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc asl\u0131nda arada muazzam bir sevgi var.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Zira m\u00fcnaka\u015fa, ya g\u0131bta ve hasedden gelir.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">M\u00fcnaka\u015fa,kavga, \u00e7eki\u015fme bunun iki sebebi olabilir. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Ya a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6zenme, ya da k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k \u00e7ekememezlik..<\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Pederde o\u011fluna kar\u015f\u0131 o yok. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Veya m\u00fcnaka\u015fa, haks\u0131zl\u0131ktan gelir. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Veledin hakk\u0131 yoktur ki, pederine kar\u015f\u0131 hak dava etsin. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Pederini haks\u0131z g\u00f6rse de, ona isyan edemez.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Burada iki tarafa da dokundurmalar var. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Husumet sebebi ya ebeveynin kendi \u00e7ocu\u011funu k\u0131skanmas\u0131ndan \u00e7ekememesinden, y<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">a da \u00e7ocu\u011fun anne babas\u0131na hak dava etmesinden kaynaklanabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Elimizi vicdan\u0131m\u0131za koyup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde b<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">u iki durumunda olmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, f\u0131trata uygun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">E\u011fer varsa, nefis hesab\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f demektir. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Anne babaya hak dava etmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nce ilk 9 ay\u0131n, sonra ilk 10 senenin <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">sonra kalan y\u0131llar\u0131n \u00fccretini \u00f6demek laz\u0131m. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Sonra belki hak dava edebiliriz.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Demek pederine isyan eden ve onu rencide eden, insan bozmas\u0131 bir canavard\u0131r. <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Ve evl\u00e2dlar\u0131n\u0131, o Z\u00e2t-\u0131 Rah\u00eem-i Kerim\u2019in hediyeleri oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in kemal-i \u015fefkat ve\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">merhamet ile onlar\u0131 sevmek ve muhafaza etmek, yine Hakk\u2019a aittir.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u0130nsan e\u011fer insansa, bile bile k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck etmez. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Nefsini aradan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir \u015fekilde olaya yakla\u015fabilen insan vi<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">cdan\u0131 ile d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen insan kendi bebekli\u011finde, \u00e7ocuklu\u011funda v<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">e en muhta\u00e7 anlar\u0131nda anne babas\u0131n\u0131n kendisini nas\u0131l merhametle b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc k<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">i merhametle b\u00fcy\u00fctm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr yoksa \u015fuanda burada olmazd\u0131k. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Merhamet olmasa geceler boyu a\u011flayan her i\u015fi dert olan bir veled \u00e7ekilmez.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">\u00c7ekilmeyip at\u0131lsa o veled kendi ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015fayamaz, \u00f6l\u00fcr. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Hala buradaysak demek muazzam bir merhamet var. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k Rabbimizin de bize emretti\u011fi gibi <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">onlara kar\u015f\u0131 tav\u0131rlarda hep dikkatli olmak esas\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">En damar\u0131m\u0131za bas\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz zamanlarda bile <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Allah r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp olayda kendi nefsimizin ve \u015feytan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n parmaklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">yine sakin kalmay\u0131, sabretmeyi e<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">n az\u0131ndan sab\u0131r g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in dua etmeyi bilmek laz\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Hem dost ve ahbab ise: <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">E\u011fer onlar iman ve amel-i s\u00e2lih sebebiyle <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Cenab-\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n dostlar\u0131 iseler, \u201cEl-hubbu Fillah\u201d s\u0131rr\u0131nca <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">o muhabbet dahi, Hakk\u2019a aittir.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Evet madem muhabbet bize verilmi\u015f. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Bunu y\u00f6netmek iradesi de bir nebze elimizde\u2026 <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">O hissiyat\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn mertebe hak nam\u0131na kullanmak i\u00e7in <\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">yapmam\u0131z gerekenleri \u00f6\u011frenmek bize g\u00f6rev\u2026 <\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Hamd oldun elimizde bunlar\u0131 nas\u0131l \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fimizi n<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">as\u0131l y\u00f6netece\u011fimizi g\u00f6steren nurlar var elhamd\u00fclillah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;\">Allah istifademizi art\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: #000000; font-size: small;\">Subh\u00e2neke l\u00e2 \u0131lmelene illema allemtene inneke entel al\u00eemul hak\u00eem ve ahiru de&#8217;veh\u00fcm enilhamd\u00fclillahi rabbil \u00e2lemin, el fatiha<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><!--nextpage--><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0&#8221;Muhabbet \u0130htiyari de\u011fil.&#8221; &nbsp; Diyorsunuz ki: Muhabbet, ihtiyar\u00ee de\u011fil.Hem ihtiyac-\u0131 f\u0131tr\u00eeye binaen, leziz taamlar\u0131 ve meyveleri severim. Peder ve v\u00e2lide ve evl\u00e2dlar\u0131m\u0131 severim.Refika-i hayat\u0131m\u0131 severim.Dost ve ahbablar\u0131m\u0131 severim.Enbiya ve evliyay\u0131 severim.Hayat\u0131m\u0131, gen\u00e7li\u011fimi severim. Bahar\u0131 ve g\u00fczel \u015feyleri ve d\u00fcnyay\u0131 severim. &nbsp; Nas\u0131l bunlar\u0131 sevmeyece\u011fim? 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