{"id":361,"date":"2008-08-19T20:01:38","date_gmt":"2008-08-19T17:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/?p=361"},"modified":"2008-08-29T18:50:35","modified_gmt":"2008-08-29T15:50:35","slug":"kadinlarla-ilgili-hadisler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/efendimiz\/hadisiserif\/kadinlarla-ilgili-hadisler.html","title":{"rendered":"Kadinlarla ilgili hadisler"},"content":{"rendered":"
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***Eb\u00fc H\u00fcreyre (rad\u0131yall\u00e2hu anh) anlat\u0131yor: “Res\u00fclullah (aleyhissal\u00e2tu vessel\u00e2m) buyurdular ki: “Allaha ve ahiret g\u00fcn\u00fcne inanan bir kad\u0131na, bir gece ve g\u00fcnd\u00fcz devam edecek bir mesafeye, yan\u0131nda bir mahremi olmad\u0131k\u00e7a gitmesi hel\u00e2l de\u011fildir.”Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Taks\u00eeru’s-Sal\u00e2t 4; M\u00fcslim, Hacc 419, 422, (1339); Muvatta, \u0130sti’z\u00e2n 37, (2, 979); Eb\u00fc D\u00e2vud, Men\u00e2sik 2, (1723-1725); Tirmiz\u00ee, Rad\u00e2 15, (1170).<\/span><\/p>\n

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***Ebu H\u00fcreyre (rad\u0131yallahu anh) anlat\u0131yor: “Resulullah (aleyhissalatu vesselam) buyurdular ki: “Kad\u0131nlara hay\u0131rhah olun, zira kad\u0131n bir eye\u011fi kemi\u011finden yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Eye\u011fi kemi\u011finin en e\u011fri yeri yukar\u0131 k\u0131sm\u0131d\u0131r. Onu do\u011frultmaya kalkarsan k\u0131rars\u0131n. Kendi haline b\u0131rak\u0131rsan e\u011fri halde kal\u0131r. \u00d6yleyse kad\u0131nlara hayarhah olun.”
\nBuhari, Nikah 79, Enbiya 1, Edeb 31, 85, Rikak 23; M\u00fcslim, Rada 65, (1468); Tirmizi, Talak 12, (1188).<\/span><\/p>\n

***\u0130bnu Abbas (rad\u0131yall\u00e2hu anh\u00fcm\u00e2) anlat\u0131yor: “Res\u00fclullah (aleyhissal\u00e2tu vessel\u00e2m) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdular: “Bir erkek, yan\u0131nda mahremi bulunmayan (yabanc\u0131) bir kad\u0131nla yaln\u0131z kalmas\u0131n!” <\/span><\/p>\n

Bunun \u00fczerine bir adam kalkarak: “Ey Allah’\u0131n Res\u00fcl\u00fc, kad\u0131n\u0131m hacc i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131, ben ise falan falan gazvelere yaz\u0131ld\u0131m!” dedi. Aleyhissal\u00e2tu vessel\u00e2m: “\u00d6yleyse git han\u0131m\u0131na yeti\u015f, onunla hacc yap!” diye emretti.”Buh\u00e2ri, Cez\u00e2u’s-Sayd 26, Cih\u00e2d 140, 181, Nik\u00e2h 111; M\u00fcslim, Hacc 424, (1341).
\n***Enes(r..a.) anlat\u0131yor;Resulullah (sav) Fat\u0131ma (ra)’ya, bir k\u00f6le getirdi. Bunu ona hibe etmi\u015fti. Hz. Fatma’n\u0131n \u00fczerinde (\u00e7ok uzun olmayan) bir elbise vard\u0131, elbiseyi ba\u015f\u0131na \u00e7ekecek olsa \u00f6b\u00fcr ucu ayaklar\u0131na ula\u015fm\u0131yordu. Elbisesiyle ayaklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rtecek olsa \u00fcst ucu ba\u015f\u0131na yeti\u015fmiyordu. Resulullah (sav), \u00f6rt\u00fcnme hususunda maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce: “Bu k\u0131yafette olman\u0131n sana bir mahzuru yok, zira, kar\u015f\u0131ndakiler baban ve k\u00f6lendir.” buyurdu. kaynak;Ebu Davud, Libas 35, (4106) <\/span><\/p>\n

***\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme anlat\u0131yor;Ben Resulullah (sav)’\u0131n yan\u0131nda idim. Yan\u0131nda Meym\u00fcne Bintu’l-Haris (ra) da vard\u0131. (Bu esnada) \u0130bnu \u00dcmmi Mektum bize do\u011fru geliyordu. -Bu vak’a, tesett\u00fcrle emredilmemizden sonra idi- ve yan\u0131m\u0131za girdi. Resulullah (sav) bize: “Ona kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn!” emretti. Biz: “Ey Allah’\u0131n resul\u00fc! O, ama ve bizi g\u00f6rmeyen (ve varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tan\u0131mayan) bir kimse de\u011fil mi?” dedik. Bunun \u00fczerine: “Siz de mi k\u00f6rlersiniz, siz onu g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor musunuz ?” buyurdu. kaynak;Ebu Davud, Libas 37, (4112); Tirmizi, Edeb 29, (2779) <\/span><\/p>\n

***Ebu \u00dcseyd anlat\u0131yor,Resulullah (sav), mescidden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yordu. Yolda kad\u0131nlarla erkeklerin kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f vaziyette olduklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, kad\u0131nlara: “Sizler geride kal\u0131n. Yolun ortas\u0131ndan gitmeyin, kenarlar\u0131ndan gidin” diye ferman buyurdu. Bundan sonra, kad\u0131nlar nerdeyse duvara de\u011fecek \u015fekilde kenardan y\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bazan bu de\u011fmeler sebebiyle, elbisenin duvara tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 olurdu. kaynak;Ebu Davud, Edeb 180, (5272)<\/span>
\n***ibnu \u00d6mer anlat\u0131yor;Resulullah (sav): “(Ey kad\u0131nlar toplulu\u011fu!) Ben, ak\u0131l sahiplerine akl\u0131 ve dini nak\u0131s olanlardan galebe \u00e7alan sizin kadar\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmedim!” demi\u015fti. \u0130\u00e7lerinden dirayetli bir kad\u0131n: “Bizim akl\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve dinimizin noksanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedir?” diye sordu. “Akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n noksanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u015fahidlikte, iki kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fehadetinin bir erkek \u015fehadetine denk olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Dindeki noksanl\u0131k ise, (ay hali sebebiyle) ramazanda oru\u00e7 yemeniz ve baz\u0131 g\u00fcnler namaz k\u0131lmaman\u0131zd\u0131r” cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdi. (Bu, Sahiheyn’de ge\u00e7en uzunca bir hadisten bir par\u00e7ad\u0131r) kaynak;Ebu Davud, S\u00fcnnet 16, (4679); M\u00fcslim, \u0130man 132, (79); Buhari, Hayz 6; \u0130bnu Mace, Fiten 19, (4003)
\n***\u00dcsame \u0130bnu Zeyd anlat\u0131yor;Resulullah (sav) buyurdular ki: “Erkeklere kendimden sonra kad\u0131nlardan daha zararl\u0131 bir fitne b\u0131rakmad\u0131m.” <\/span><\/p>\n

***Mutarr\u0131f \u0130bnu Abdillah’\u0131n anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re, bu zat\u0131n iki han\u0131m\u0131 vard\u0131. Bunlardan birinin yan\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Geri d\u00f6n\u00fcnce, han\u0131m\u0131: “Falan han\u0131m\u0131n yan\u0131ndan geliyor olmal\u0131s\u0131n!” dedi. Mutarr\u0131f: “Hay\u0131r,” dedi “\u0130mran \u0130bnu Husayn’\u0131n yan\u0131ndan geliyorum. O bana Resulullah’\u0131n \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc nakletti: “Cennet sakinlerinin en az\u0131 kad\u0131nlard\u0131r.” <\/span>
\n\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme (radiyallahu anha) anlatiyor: “Resulullah (aleyhissalatu vesselam) buyurdular ki: “Hangi kadin, kocasi kendisinden razi olarak vefat ederse, cennete girer.” Tirmizi, Rada 10, (1161).<\/span><\/p>\n

Yine Ebu H\u00fcreyre (radiyallahu anh) anlatiyor: “Ey Allah’in Resul\u00fc. dedi, hangi kadin daha hayirlidir?”
\n“Kocasi bakinca onu s\u00fcrura garkeden, emredince itaat eden nefis ve malinda, kocasinin hosuna gitmeyen seyle ona muhalefet etmeyen kadin!” diye cevap verdi.” Nesai, Nikah 14 (6,68).<\/span><\/p>\n

Hakim Ibnu Mu’aviye babasi Mu’aviye (radiyallahu anh)’den anlatiyor: “Ey Allah’in Res\u00fcl\u00fc! dedim, bizden her biri \u00fczerinde, zevcesinin hakki nedir?”
\n“Kendin yiyince ona da yedirmen, giydigin zaman ona da giydirmen, y\u00fcz\u00fcne vurmaman, takb\u00eeh etmemen, evin i\u00e7i hari\u00e7 onu terketmemen.”
\n(Ebu Davud, Nikah 42, (2142, 2143, 2144)<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130bnu Abbas rad\u0131yallahu anh\u00fcma anlat\u0131yor: “Resulullah aleyhissalatu vesselam buyurdular ki:
\n“Mazur bir sebep yokken kocas\u0131ndan bo\u015fanma talep eden kad\u0131n cennetin kokusunu bile bulamaz. Halbuki cennetin kokusu k\u0131rk y\u0131ll\u0131k y\u00fcr\u00fcme mesafesinden duyulur.”
\n(K\u00fct\u00fcb-i Sitte, 6597)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Rasulullah (SAV) “Harama bakan her g\u00f6z, g\u00f6z zinasi yapmis olur. Bir kadin g\u00fczel koku s\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcp erkekler arasindan gecerse, yahut erkeklerin bulundugu yere gelirse bircok g\u00f6z zinasi g\u00fcnahi kazanir,” buyurmustur.
\n(A.g.e. sh: 320, Miskat El Mesabih.)<\/span><\/p>\n

“Hangi kadin kokulanir ve (bu) kokuya duysunlar diye bir topluluga ugrarsa, o kadin zina edicidir. Ona bakan her g\u00f6z de zina edicidir.” buyurmustur. (A.g.e. sh: 320, Feyzul Kadir C:2 sh: 26)<\/span><\/p>\n

Yine Rasulullah (SAV) ” Kadin sirf kocasindan baskasinin faydalanmasi, zevk almasi icin kokulanir ise, o fiili ancak bir ates ve bir ar (ayip) olur.” (A.g.e. sh: 321)<\/span>
\nHan\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00fczmeyin. Onlar, Allah\u00fc te\u00e2l\u00e2n\u0131n size emanetidir. Onlara yumu\u015fak olun, iyilik edin! [M\u00fcslim]<\/span><\/p>\n

Han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc huylar\u0131na katlanan erkek, belalara sabreden Hz. Eyy\u00fcb gibi m\u00fckafatlara kavu\u015fur. Kocas\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc huyuna sabreden kad\u0131n da, Hz. Asiye gibi sevaba kavu\u015fur. [\u0130.Gazali]<\/span><\/p>\n

Han\u0131m\u0131 ile iyi ge\u00e7inip \u015fakala\u015fan\u0131 Allah\u00fc te\u00e2l\u00e2 sever, r\u0131zklar\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r. [\u0130.L\u00e2l]<\/span><\/p>\n

En \u00fcst\u00fcn m\u00fcmin, han\u0131m\u0131na, en iyi, en l\u00fctufk\u00e2r davranan g\u00fczel ahlakl\u0131 kimsedir. [Tirmizi]<\/span><\/p>\n

En iyi M\u00fcsl\u00fcman, han\u0131m\u0131na en iyi davranand\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7inizde, han\u0131m\u0131na en iyi davranan benim. [Nesai]<\/span><\/p>\n

Han\u0131m\u0131na g\u00fcler y\u00fczle bakan erke\u011fin defterine, bir k\u00f6le azat etmi\u015f sevab\u0131 yaz\u0131l\u0131r. [R.Nas\u0131hin]<\/span><\/p>\n

Han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 ifa etmeyenin; namazlar\u0131, oru\u00e7lar\u0131 kabul olmaz.)[M\u00fcr\u015fid-\u00fcn-nisa]<\/span><\/p>\n

Han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ven, Allah\u2019a ve Res\u00fbl\u00fcne asi olur. K\u0131yamette onun hasm\u0131 ben olurum.[R.Nas\u0131hin]<\/span><\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlara ancak asalet ve \u015feref sahibi kimse de\u011fer verir. Onlar\u0131 ancak k\u00f6t\u00fc ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k kimseler hor g\u00f6r\u00fcr. [\u0130.Asakir] <\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 alt\u0131n ve g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ile s\u00fcsleyin! Elbiseleri g\u00fczel olsun! \u0130tibar kazanmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in en g\u00fczel hediyelerle ihsanda bulunun! [Hakim]<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funu g\u00fczelce terbiye edip, Allah\u00fc te\u00e2l\u00e2n\u0131n verdi\u011fi nimetlerle bolluk i\u00e7inde yedirir giydirirse, o k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu onun i\u00e7in bir bereket olur, Cehennemden kurtulup kolayca Cennete girmesine vesile olur. [Taberani] <\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130ki k\u0131z evlad\u0131na g\u00fczel muamele eden, mutlaka Cennete girer. [\u0130bni Mace] <\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130ki k\u0131z\u0131 veya iki k\u0131z karde\u015fi olup da, mai\u015fetlerini g\u00fczelce sa\u011flayanla Cennette beraber oluruz.[Tirmizi] <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ar\u015f\u0131dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri, erkek \u00e7ocuklardan \u00f6nce k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na verene, Allah\u00fc te\u00e2l\u00e2 rahmetle nazar eder. Allah\u00fc te\u00e2l\u00e2 rahmetle nazar etti\u011fine de azap etmez. [Har\u00e2iti] <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7ar\u015f\u0131dan turfanda meyve al\u0131p evine getiren, sadaka sevab\u0131 al\u0131r. Getirdi\u011finiz meyveyi, erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan \u00f6nce k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na verin! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131, k\u0131zlar\u0131 sevindiren, Allah korkusundan a\u011flayan gibi \u00e7ok sevap kazan\u0131r. Allah korkusundan a\u011flayana Cehennem haramd\u0131r.[\u0130bni Adiy] <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131na, ihtiya\u00e7tan kurtulana kadar iyi bakan, yedirip giydiren, elbette Cenneti kazan\u0131r. [Ebu Davud] <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7 k\u0131z veya k\u0131z karde\u015finin ge\u00e7im veya ba\u015fka s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na katlanan\u0131, Allah\u00fc te\u00e2l\u00e2 Cennete koyar. Eshab-\u0131 kiramdan biri, (\u0130ki tane olursa da ayn\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r?) diye sual edince, Peygamber efendimiz (Evet, iki tane olursa da ayn\u0131d\u0131r) buyurdu. Ba\u015fka birisi, (Ya bir tane olursa?) diye sual etti. Cevab\u0131nda buyurdu ki: (Bir tane de olsa gene ayn\u0131d\u0131r.) [Hakim, Har\u00e2iti]<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu h\u00fck\u00fcmlere g\u00f6re, zamanimizin kadinlarinin durumu icler acisidir. Cenab-i Allah b\u00fct\u00fcn M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara suur verip Islam’i yasamak ve yasatmak nasib etsin. (Amin).<\/span><\/p>\n

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***Eb\u00fc H\u00fcreyre (rad\u0131yall\u00e2hu anh) anlat\u0131yor: “Res\u00fclullah (aleyhissal\u00e2tu vessel\u00e2m) buyurdular ki: “Allaha ve ahiret g\u00fcn\u00fcne inanan bir kad\u0131na, bir gece ve g\u00fcnd\u00fcz devam edecek bir mesafeye, yan\u0131nda bir mahremi olmad\u0131k\u00e7a gitmesi hel\u00e2l de\u011fildir.”Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Taks\u00eeru’s-Sal\u00e2t 4; M\u00fcslim, Hacc 419, 422, (1339); Muvatta, \u0130sti’z\u00e2n 37, (2, 979); Eb\u00fc D\u00e2vud, Men\u00e2sik 2, (1723-1725); Tirmiz\u00ee, Rad\u00e2 15, (1170). \u00a0 \u00a0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hadisiserif"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=361"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}