{"id":385,"date":"2008-08-19T20:16:34","date_gmt":"2008-08-19T17:16:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.risaleforum.net\/blog\/?p=385"},"modified":"2008-11-22T13:46:33","modified_gmt":"2008-11-22T10:46:33","slug":"giybet-ve-kardeslikle-alakali-hadisler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/efendimiz\/hadisiserif\/giybet-ve-kardeslikle-alakali-hadisler.html","title":{"rendered":"Giybet Ve Karde\u015flikle Alakali Hadisler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n
Kim bir m\u00fc’mini bir m\u00fcnaf\u0131\u011fa (g\u0131ybetciye) kar\u015f\u0131 himaye ederse, Allah da onun i\u00e7in, K\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc, etini cehennem ate\u015finden koruyacak bir melek g\u00f6nderir. Kim de, bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana, k\u00f6t\u00fclenmesini dileyerek bir iftira atarsa, Allah onu, k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc, cehennem k\u00f6pr\u00fclerinden birinin \u00fcst\u00fcnde, s\u00f6yledi\u011finin g\u00fcnah\u0131ndan paklan\u0131p \u00e7\u0131k\u0131ncaya kadar hapseder.<\/span><\/td>\n\"\"<\/a><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n


\nEfendimiz sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem buyurdular ki: <\/span><\/p>\n

\n“G\u0131ybetin ne oldu\u011funu biliyor musunuz?” <\/span>\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\n” Allah ve Resul\u00fc daha iyi bilirler” <\/span>\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

dediler. Buyurdular ki: <\/span><\/p>\n

\n“Birinizin, karde\u015fini ho\u015flanmayaca\u011f\u0131 \u015feyle anmas\u0131d\u0131r!” <\/span>\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Bir adam dedi ki, <\/span><\/p>\n

\n“Ya benim s\u00f6yledi\u011fim onda varsa, bu da m\u0131 g\u0131ybettir?” <\/span>\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\n“E\u011fer s\u00f6yledi\u011fin onda varsa g\u0131ybetini yapm\u0131\u015f oldun. E\u011fer s\u00f6yledi\u011fin onda yoksa bir de b\u00fchtanda (iftirada) bulundun demektir.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Hz.Ai\u015fe Validemiz anlat\u0131yor: <\/span><\/strong><\/span>\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\n


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“Ey Allah’\u0131n Resul\u00fc, sana Safiyye’deki \u015fu hal yeter” <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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demi\u015ftim. Bundan memnun kalmad\u0131 ve \u015f\u00f6yle dedi: <\/span><\/p>\n


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\n

“\u00d6yle bir kelime sarfettin ki, e\u011fer o denize kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lsayd\u0131, onu ifsad eder, bozard\u0131.” <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Yine Hz. Ai\u015fe Validemiz der ki:<\/strong><\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n


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“Ben tahkir(k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rme) maksad\u0131yla bir insan\u0131n taklidini yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bana hemen \u015funu s\u00f6yledi: <\/span><\/p>\n


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\n

“Ben bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131, kusuru sebebiyle, hatta bana kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k olarak \u015fu kadar d\u00fcnyal\u0131k verilse bile s\u00f6z ve fiille taklid etmem.” (Eb\u00fb Davud, Edeb 40)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

Yine Hz. Ai\u015fe Validemizin anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re; <\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n


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bir defas\u0131nda kendisi biri hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6z s\u00f6yler. Resulullah sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem O’na “t\u00fck\u00fcr” der. T\u00fck\u00fcr\u00fcnce a\u011fz\u0131ndan bir et par\u00e7as\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/span><\/p>\n


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\n

“Riban\u0131n en k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc, haks\u0131z yere m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n \u0131rz\u0131n\u0131 (manevi \u015fahsiyetini) rencide etmektir (g\u0131ybetini yapmakt\u0131r).” (Eb\u00fb Davud, Edeb 40)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\n


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“G\u0131ybet zinadan daha k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr.” <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

Nas\u0131l olur Y\u00e2 Resulallah?<\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n

\n

“Adam zina eder, sonra tevbe eder, Allah ma\u011ffiret buyurur. G\u0131ybet eden ise g\u0131ybet edilen affetmedik\u00e7e ma\u011ffiret olunmaz” (Beyhaki, \u015euabu-l \u0130man, 6740-41-42)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Bir Hadislerinde Efendimiz sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/span><\/p>\n

\n


<\/p>\n

“Allah, bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana, bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n kan\u0131n\u0131, \u0131rz\u0131n\u0131 ve ona su-i zanda bulunmas\u0131n\u0131 haram k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.” (M\u00fcslim, birr 32) <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Yine Efendimiz sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem, <\/span><\/p>\n

\n


<\/p>\n

“H\u00fcsn-\u00fc zan imandand\u0131r.” <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

buyurur.<\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n

Bir Hadis’te \u015f\u00f6yle buyurulur: <\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n

\n

“M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n. Zira, her kim m\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rsa Allah da onun ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 takib eder, nihayet onu evinin i\u00e7inde de olsa, rezil r\u00fcsvay eder.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

Mirac gecesinde, bak\u0131r t\u0131rnaklar\u0131 olan bir kavme u\u011frad\u0131m. T\u0131rnaklar\u0131yla y\u00fczlerini ve g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcslerini t\u0131rmal\u0131yorlard\u0131. <\/span><\/p>\n

\n


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“Ey Cebrail, bunlar da kim?” <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

diye sordum. <\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n

\n

“Bunlar, dedi, insanlar\u0131n etlerini yiyenler ve \u0131rzlar\u0131n\u0131 (\u015fereflerini) payimal edenler, ayaklar alt\u0131na alanlard\u0131r.” (Eb\u00fb Davud,Edeb 40)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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\n

“Kim bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcmandan, g\u0131ybet ve \u015ferefini payimal etmek suretiyle tek lokma dahi yese, Allah ona mutlaka onun ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 cehennemden tatt\u0131racakt\u0131r…” (Eb\u00fb Davud, Edeb 40)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

\n

“Kim bir m\u00fc’mini bir m\u00fcnaf\u0131\u011fa (g\u0131ybetciye) kar\u015f\u0131 himaye ederse, Allah da onun i\u00e7in, K\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc, etini cehennem ate\u015finden koruyacak bir melek g\u00f6nderir. Kim de, bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana, k\u00f6t\u00fclenmesini dileyerek bir iftira atarsa, Allah onu, k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc, cehennem k\u00f6pr\u00fclerinden birinin \u00fcst\u00fcnde, s\u00f6yledi\u011finin g\u00fcnah\u0131ndan paklan\u0131p \u00e7\u0131k\u0131ncaya kadar hapseder.” (Ebu Davud, Edeb 41)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


<\/p>\n

“Katt\u00e2t (s\u00f6z ta\u015f\u0131yan) (veya ayn\u0131 manaya gelen nemm\u00e2m) cennete giremeyecektir.” (Buhari, Edeb 50 – M\u00fcslim, \u0130man 169 – Ebu Davud, Edeb 38)<\/span><\/p>\n


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\n

“Ne fas\u0131k, ne de m\u00fccahir (g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ktan i\u015fleyen) kimse i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylenen g\u0131ybet say\u0131lmaz. M\u00fccahir olan hari\u00e7, b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00fcmmetim affa mazhar olmu\u015ftur.” ( Buhari, Edeb 60)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\n


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“Her kim haya perdesini atarsa, art\u0131k onun g\u0131ybeti yoktur.” (g\u0131ybeti caizdir.) (Beyhaki, S\u00fcnen, x, 210)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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\n

Ash\u00e2b’\u0131m! Biribirinize d\u00fc\u015f\u200fmanl\u0131k etmeyiniz, biribirinize hased etmeyiniz, biribirinizden y\u00fcz \u00e7evirip ayr\u0131lmay\u0131n\u0131z. Ey Allah’\u0131n kullar\u0131! Biribirinizle karde\u015f\u200f olunuz. (Karde\u015f\u200f sevgisi g\u00f6steriniz). Bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n din karde\u015f\u200fiyle \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcnden fazla k\u00fcs durmas\u0131 hel\u00e2l de\u011fildir.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Eb\u00fb H\u00fcreyre radiya’llahu anh’den riv\u00e2yete g\u00f6re,<\/strong><\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n


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Res\u00fblu’llah Salla’llahu aleyhi ve sellem \u015f\u200f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u200ftur: <\/span><\/p>\n


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\n

Ashab\u0131m, zandan (sebepsiz ithamdan) \u00e7ekininiz! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sebepsiz ith\u00e2m\u0131n i\u00e7inde yalan \u00e7oktur. Biribirinizin eksikli\u011fini g\u00f6rmeye ve i\u015f\u200fitmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n\u0131z, hus\u00fbs\u00ee ve mahrem hay\u00e2t\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da ara\u015f\u200ft\u0131rmay\u0131n\u0131z!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Ber\u00e2’ (\u0130bn-i \u00c2zib) radiya’ll\u00e2hu anh’den \u015f\u00f6yle riv\u00e2yet edilmi\u015f\u200ftir:<\/strong><\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n


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Ber\u00e2’ demi\u015f\u200ftir ki:<\/span><\/p>\n

\n


\n Neb\u00ee salla’ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem bize yedi \u015f\u200fey’i i\u015f\u200flememizi emretti. Yedi \u015f\u200feyden de bizi nehyeyledi. Res\u00fbl-i Ekrem bize, cen\u00e2ze arkas\u0131nda gitmeyi, hastay\u0131 ziy\u00e2ret etmeyi, d\u00e2vete ic\u00e2bet eylemeyi, mazl\u00fbma yard\u0131m\u0131, yem\u00eeni kab\u00fbl etmeyi, sel\u00e2m\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamay\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131na du\u00e2 etmeyi emreyledi.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Ai\u015f\u200fe radiya’ll\u00e2hu anh\u00e2’dan <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n


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Neb\u00ee salla’ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem’in: <\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n

\n

Allah kat\u0131nda insanlardan en nefret edileni davala\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman \u00e7ok gaddar davranand\u0131r. buyuruldu\u011fu riv\u00e2yet edilmi\u015f\u200ftir.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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Yine \u0130bn-i \u00d6mer radiya’ll\u00e2hu anh\u00fcm\u00e2’dan riv\u00e2yet olundu\u011funa g\u00f6re:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n


\n Res\u00fblull\u00e2h salla’ll\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem: <\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n

\n

“M\u00fcslaman m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n din karde\u015fidir. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana zul\u00fcm etmez; m\u00fcsl\u00fcman m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131 (ba\u015f\u0131na gelen mus\u00eebette) terk etmez; bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman, karde\u015finin ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131larsa, Allah da onun ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lar; bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n d\u00fcny\u00e2 darl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 giderip \u015f\u200f\u00e2d ederse, Allah da k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde onun darl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 giderip mutlu k\u0131lar. Kim ki m\u00fcsl\u00fcman karde\u015f\u200finin d\u00fcny\u00e2da ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rterse, Allah da k\u0131y\u00e2met g\u00fcn\u00fcnde onun ay\u0131b\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rter.” buyurmu\u015f\u200ftur.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n


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\n

“Allahtan \u00fc\u00e7 \u015fey istedim, ikisini kabul etti, birini kabul etmedi. \u00dcmmetimin ittifak\u0131n\u0131 istedim kabul etmedi.”<\/span><\/p>\n


<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\n

“Allah i\u00e7in seviniz, Allah i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k ediniz, Allah i\u00e7in karar veriniz.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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“M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar birbirlerine kenetlenmi\u015f bina gibidirler. Birbirlerine s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 tutunurlar.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Kim bir m\u00fc’mini bir m\u00fcnaf\u0131\u011fa (g\u0131ybetciye) kar\u015f\u0131 himaye ederse, Allah da onun i\u00e7in, K\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc, etini cehennem ate\u015finden koruyacak bir melek g\u00f6nderir. Kim de, bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcmana, k\u00f6t\u00fclenmesini dileyerek bir iftira atarsa, Allah onu, k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc, cehennem k\u00f6pr\u00fclerinden birinin \u00fcst\u00fcnde, s\u00f6yledi\u011finin g\u00fcnah\u0131ndan paklan\u0131p \u00e7\u0131k\u0131ncaya kadar hapseder.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[872,875,874,873],"class_list":["post-385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hadisiserif","tag-giybet","tag-hadis","tag-kardeslik","tag-uhuvvet"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=385"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/risaleforum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}